Workshops and ENM Community Events

“ To be nobody but yourself… in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody but yourself… means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight, and never stop fighting.”

– E.E. Cummings

Pleasure Filled Workshops

Erotic Blueprint Intro Workshop

Come and learn an introductory overview of the Erotic Blueprint Types and what transformations are possible in your life when you understand what erotic type you are and gain the tools to build deeper connections, fulfilling intimacy and have more satisfying sex. The Erotic Blueprint TypesTM were created by our teacher & mentor, Jaiya. Check out a demonstration by Jaiya in the Netflix series: Sex Love & Goop, where she shows the powerful results from learning the Erotic Blueprint TypesTM. This is a 3-hour video meeting. Investment: $60 per person, $100 per couple.

Here’s what you’ll get:

  • Understand what the Erotic Blueprints are
  • Define the 5 different Erotic Blueprint TypesTM
  • Really know your true sexual self & needs
  • Identify others’ blueprints to deepen connection
  • Improve sexual communication and intimacy
  • Bust sex shame and join the sex positive conversation

Workshops are video meetings online, so you can participate from anywhere.

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Lifestyle/ENM Intro Workshops

You have to start your adventure somewhere… why not here, setting a good foundation with mentors who have experience? Join this fun, sexy, small group setting online where you can learn Ethical Non-Monogamy basics and increase your likelihood of success – for both couples and singles of all genders. We create a safe, judgement-free space with the opportunity to share ideas in a like-minded community where you can uplevel skills, discuss scenarios and identify potential challenges before they derail your adventure. 

Video meeting is 1.5 hours, followed by Q&A time. Investment is $25 per person or $30 per couple.

  • Basic knowledge of how the Lifestyle works
  • Clarify your expectations for ENM
  • How to have open communicate with your primary partner or potential playmates
  • Etiquette, terminology and resources
  • Profile tips for Lifestyle websites
  • Overview of Erotic Blueprints (Learn about the Erotic Blueprints in the Netflix Show – Sex, Love and Goop with Gwyneth Paltrow)

Gentlemen’s Workshop

This workshop is to address topics specifically for men in the lifestyle/ENM (it works outside of the lifestyle as well), both single and coupled. You can level up and increase your chances of success and meet more quality matches. Topics include: etiquette, reading body language, how to have a positive approach to meeting people, how to respect boundaries and obtain consent, lifestyle website profile & messaging tips, dressing tips, learn the difference between aggressive vs. assertive, how to be inclusive when approaching a couple. A brief overview of the Erotic Blueprint Types and how it may benefit you will be shared. This workshop is required for single males that want to attend our parties or Meet & Greets. This is a 2-3 hour video meeting for $60.

Lifestyle Goddesses Workshop

This workshop is to empower women and to address topics specifically for women in the lifestyle (it works outside of the lifestyle as well), both single and coupled. Topics include: learn how to be seen & heard, set and speak your boundaries, develop a firm but respectful NO, self-love & body image, how to give and ask for consent, lifestyle website profile & messaging tips, dressing tips, lifestyle etiquette, tips for staying safe, how to approach meeting someone new, and increase your chances of success. A brief overview of the Erotic Blueprint Types and how it may benefit you will be shared. This is a 2-3 hour video meeting for $60.

Lifestyle Parties

These exciting and juicy parties can be held in a house or a hotel. Come see your old friends and meet some new ones. These are zero pressure events with the option to participate in play if all people are consenting and interested.

Meet & Greets

A fun social gathering with other sexy like-minded people!  This is a chance to participate in a gathering with a relaxed, friendly vibe and a zero pressure atmosphere. It’s about getting to make new friends. No play at these events, but flirting and making new connections is highly encouraged.  This is also a great way to meet new friends from the Lifestyle websites for the first in-person meeting in a safe environment. Some of these events are during the day while some are at night.  We often meet at a local winery, night club, brewery, etc.