Workshops and ENM Community Events
– E.E. Cummings
Pleasure Filled Workshops
Erotic Blueprint Intro Workshop
Come and learn an introductory overview of the Erotic Blueprint Types and what transformations are possible in your life when you understand what erotic type you are and gain the tools to build deeper connections, fulfilling intimacy and have more satisfying sex. The Erotic Blueprint TypesTM were created by our teacher & mentor, Jaiya. Check out a demonstration by Jaiya in the Netflix series: Sex Love & Goop, where she shows the powerful results from learning the Erotic Blueprint TypesTM. This is a 1.5-hour zoom call. Investment: $50. Please contact us to schedule. Text us at 925-495-0932 or email us at [email protected]
Here’s what you’ll get:
- Understand what the Erotic Blueprints are
- Define the 5 different Erotic Blueprint TypesTM
- Really know your true sexual self & needs
- Identify others’ blueprints to deepen connection
- Improve sexual communication and intimacy
- Bust sex shame and join the sex positive conversation2
Workshops are zoom video calls online, so you can participate from anywhere. Our workshops are private, except for our small group Lifestyle Intro Workshop. You will find the upcoming dates for that in the description below.
Lifestyle/ENM Intro Workshops
You have to start your adventure somewhere… why not here, setting a good foundation with mentors who have experience? Join this fun, sexy, small group setting online where you can learn Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) basics and increase your likelihood of success – for both couples and singles of all genders. We create a safe, judgement-free space with the opportunity to share ideas in a like-minded community where you can uplevel skills, discuss scenarios and identify potential challenges before they derail your adventure.
Video meeting is 1.5 hours, followed by Q&A time. Investment is $30 per person. Private workshop $50.
Next Workshop is Tuesday, June 22, 2023 6-8pm. To register text us at 925-495-0932 or email us at [email protected]
- Basic knowledge of how the Lifestyle works
- Clarify your expectations for ENM
- How to have open communicate with your primary partner or potential playmates
- Etiquette, terminology and resources
- Profile tips for Lifestyle websites
- Overview of Erotic Blueprints (Learn about the Erotic Blueprints in the Netflix Show – Sex, Love and Goop with Gwyneth Paltrow)
Gentlemen’s Workshop
This workshop is to address topics specifically for men in the lifestyle/ENM (it works outside of the lifestyle as well), both single and coupled. You can level up and increase your chances of success and meet more quality matches. Topics include: etiquette, reading body language, how to have a positive approach to meeting people, how to respect boundaries and obtain consent, lifestyle website profile & messaging tips, dressing tips, learn the difference between aggressive vs. assertive, how to be inclusive when approaching a couple. A brief overview of the Erotic Blueprint Types and how it may benefit you will be shared. This workshop is required for single males that want to attend our parties or Meet & Greets. This is a 1.5 hour zoom call for an investment of $50. Please contact us to schedule. Text us at 925-495-0932 or email us at [email protected]
Lifestyle Goddesses Workshop
This workshop is to empower women and to address topics specifically for women in the lifestyle (it works outside of the lifestyle as well), both single and coupled. Topics include: learn how to be seen & heard, set and speak your boundaries, develop a firm but respectful NO, self-love & body image, how to give and ask for consent, lifestyle website profile & messaging tips, dressing tips, lifestyle etiquette, tips for staying safe, how to approach meeting someone new, and increase your chances of success. A brief overview of the Erotic Blueprint Types and how it may benefit you will be shared. This is a 1.5 hour zoom call for an investment of $50.Please contact us to schedule. Text us at 925-495-0932 or email us at [email protected]
Lifestyle Parties
Saturday, June 24, 2023 * 8pm-1am Pacheco, CA
Doors will be closed after 9pm, please be on time.
Theme: End of School!
Come join us for a very special party location site… this holiday party will take place in a BDSM Dungeon! You can make a case for whether you’ve been naughty or nice… depending on what you’re looking for. This event is for lifestylers, with the option to have a little adventure trying out some exciting special effects and equipment. It’s also an event that welcomes light BDSM play. The dance floor will be rockin’ so come get your groove on, and there’s a stripper pole to show off your dancing skills too!
Address, details, and guidelines will be emailed after you register. Light snacks will be be served, BYOB. Contact us to register. Couples $70, Single Females $20 (max 4), Single Males must complete our Lifestyle Intro Workshop before attending any of our events and will be limited to a max of 4 single males, $80.
Meet & Greets
A fun social gathering with other sexy like-minded people! This is a chance to participate in a gathering with a relaxed, friendly vibe and a zero pressure atmosphere. It’s about getting to make new friends. No play at these events, but flirting and making new connections is highly encouraged. This is also a great way to meet new friends from the Lifestyle websites for the first in-person meeting in a safe environment. Some of these events are during the day while some are at night. We often meet at a local winery, night club, brewery, etc.
Kareoke, Dancing, Drinks & Friends Meet & Greet
Join us Thursday, June 8, 2023 at 7:30pm – Pleasanton, CA
Sunshine Saloon, Pleasanton, CA
The DJ offers Kareoke starting at 8:30, then by 11pm it’s just hot Top 40 dance music. We’ll have a group table in the back game room so come join us. Come early to connect with friends before the music and fun starts. Single males must complete our Lifestyle Intro Workshop before attending any of our events. Please contact us to let us know you’re coming for a head count. Hope to see you there!